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TL;DR \u2014 If I wanted to find out how other people feel and think about you, would I start with what you say about yourself, or find out what other people are saying about you when you’re not in the room? And yet every idiot online is doing the first.<\/p>\n
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Watch what experts with years in the field do when they try to answer that.<\/p>\n
They read the homepage and scroll through the founder’s LinkedIn, the tagline, the last six posts, and the deck, if they can get it.<\/p>\n
Every one of those was written by the company. All of them are completely wrong by a universe.<\/p>\n
A position is the space a brand occupies in the customer’s mind. The customer’s mind is the location.<\/p>\n
So, the website tells you what the company would like to occupy. It’s a statement of intent, filed by an interested party, about real estate it doesn’t own.<\/p>\n
You can read all of it and still not know the answer.<\/p>\n
You can answer what their offer is and what their framing says.<\/p>\n
There’s another pickle.<\/p>\n
You can’t just ask customers, either. A question that costs someone nothing gets you a cost-free answer. Around 60% say yes when there’s no consequence attached, and about 46% do so when there’s a real chance they’ll have to pay. Ask a customer what your brand means to them, and you’ll get a considered, generous, slightly flattering performance.<\/p>\n
So I go looking for conversations that already happened.<\/p>\n
Reddit threads.<\/p>\n
Support tickets.<\/p>\n
Review text written when nobody from the company was in the room. People aren’t more honest there. The difference is that the question came from them, so the categories are theirs. Then the actual work starts, and it has nothing to do with counting mentions.<\/p>\n
When a person says, “I do” at their wedding, that’s two syllables carrying a lifetime of refusals. Everyone else declined, permanently, in public, in front of the people who raised them.<\/p>\n
\u201cI do\u201d is simply two words on top. The listener supplies the rest, and the listener is never wrong about what it means.<\/p>\n
Customer language works the same way, and almost nobody reads it that way.<\/p>\n
Someone writes that they finally stopped second-guessing the number before the board meeting. On the surface, that’s a comment about reporting features.<\/p>\n
Underneath, they’re telling you they used to walk into that room feeling like a fraud, and now they don’t.<\/p>\n
Someone else writes that they stopped forwarding the deck to their manager for a sanity check.<\/p>\n
Surface: workflow.<\/p>\n
Underneath: they trust their own judgment now.<\/p>\n
Someone else writes that they finally cancelled the agency.<\/p>\n
Surface: a vendor got churned.<\/p>\n
Underneath: they stopped believing they needed permission from an expert.<\/p>\n
Read forty of those and the pattern stops being an anecdote. Three different people, three different sentences, one identity moving in the same direction. Nobody wrote those sentences for you. You couldn’t have put those words in their mouth.<\/p>\n
That implicit pattern is the position.<\/p>\n
It was never the line on the homepage. That was the framing application. The customer’s language is the decision.<\/p>\n
So the answer to the question is a change of address.<\/p>\n
Stop reading what the brand published.<\/p>\n
Go read what was said about it when nobody was asking, and then read what’s sitting underneath.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Paul Syng<\/p>\n
PS: The Kit<\/a> works precisely on the fundamental principle I described above, and it helps you ship your positioning in 60 minutes \u00a0(not required if you can simply run the playbook I described above yourself)<\/p>\n