{"id":1978,"date":"2024-08-16T17:11:13","date_gmt":"2024-08-16T21:11:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/?p=1978"},"modified":"2024-08-16T17:16:55","modified_gmt":"2024-08-16T21:16:55","slug":"have-you-ever-questioned-the-questioner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/have-you-ever-questioned-the-questioner\/","title":{"rendered":"Have you ever questioned the questioner?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We&#8217;re all playing this weird game at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s like hide-and-seek but with our mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;re so busy trying to look smart and competent that we forget something crucial: it&#8217;s okay not to have all the answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if I told you there&#8217;s a better way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s called double-loop learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(As shared by Chris Argyris in HBR. Link below)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fancy name, simple idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of it like this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the time, we&#8217;re just adjusting the thermostat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Too hot?<br>Turn it down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Too cold?<br>Crank it up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if we started asking, &#8220;Hey, why are we even setting it at 68 degrees?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mind-blown yet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I once worked with a team that was terrified of admitting a project was failing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They kept tweaking and adjusting, hoping for a miracle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sound familiar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What if they had felt safe to ask, &#8220;Should we even be doing this project?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s the power of questioning the questioner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s not about pointing fingers or playing the blame game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s about creating a space where it&#8217;s okay to challenge assumptions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Where we can say, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know, let&#8217;s figure it out together.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen companies transform when they embrace this approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problems get solved faster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Innovation flourishes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People actually look forward to coming to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe, next time you&#8217;re in a meeting, try asking a question that makes people pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>See what happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you ready to question the questioner?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It might feel uncomfortable at first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But trust me, it&#8217;s worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we start questioning, we open up a whole new world of possibilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, what&#8217;s the first question you&#8217;re going to challenge?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/1977\/09\/double-loop-learning-in-organizations\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/hbr.org\/1977\/09\/double-loop-learning-in-organizations<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;re all playing this weird game at work. It&#8217;s like hide-and-seek but with our mistakes. We&#8217;re so busy trying to look smart and competent that we forget something crucial: it&#8217;s okay not to have all the answers. But what if I told you there&#8217;s a better way? It&#8217;s called double-loop learning. (As shared by Chris [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1978","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-syng"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1978","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1978"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1979,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1978\/revisions\/1979"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paulsyng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}